We split up with my gf of 11 months 90 days ago. We pulled the trigger but i do believe that she would have within a month, we were fighting so much if I hadn’t. We have been both young (20-21) as well as in university, and had been both each others’ very very very first genuine relationship.
My issue is that, after cutting all contact together with her for just two months, I have recently started making love together with her again. Her concept. We initially rejected her offer away from spite (and also to keep myself from developing emotions once again), but she ended up being persistent therefore my “other” head won away over my logical mind, as much takes place.
Predictably, i do believe We have developed emotions on her behalf again. They are maybe maybe not logical emotions. Logically, i am aware we do not need become together with her because 1) it’s over and I also like to satisfy somebody brand new, and I also am earnestly pursuing other ladies (We have a night out together the next day in reality), and 2) she stated and did several things that really hurt me I don’t want to go through that again while we were dating and.
Nonetheless it’s not only the sex I like… she’s wonderful to hold down with, we now have great social chemistry, she lends me CDs, constantly proposes to assist me personally with material, etc. We am additionally pretty introverted, therefore my social life has a big hit if We cut her out of it.
In minute of weakness where I brought within the risk of a relationship once again, she managed to get quite clear she will not wish to be beside me, beyond buddies with benefits. Her rationale is, “I’m drawn to you, we’re suitable during sex and I also love chilling out with you, but we can’t see me personally investing the rest of my life with you.