That isn’t a problem that is local. It’s endemic from the internet dating sites.
Dang, Just One More Man. I actually hope I never meet you. Sorry, but telling a lady you realize all of that you look like a stalker about her makes. I’d get fully up and then leave instantly.
Yes, classic stalker behavior. Specially really telling her – that is textbook behavior that is stalking. Stalkers are becoming off on telling you they know material.